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庆祝玛德琳老师的生命

Celebration of  Madeleine’s life

 

各位萨提亚的会员们:

带着巨大的悲痛,我们告诉大家关于受人敬爱的玛德琳老师的消息。玛德琳老师自2008年以来一直担任加拿大太平洋学院的董事,2006年就加入了会员。最近她在中国教学期间发现了健康问题。你们可以阅读她的两封健康讯息的邮件。

请将你们的祝福和祈祷发给玛德琳。

 

加拿大太平洋学院

 

各位的萨提亚会员们,

    我们怀着最深切的悲痛宣布,玛德琳博士(Dr.Madeleine DeLittle)于2024年1月16日在家中去世,她的家人和朋友陪伴在她身边。

 玛德琳于2006年加入太平洋萨提亚学院,并于2008年至2014年在董事会任职,并于2017年起至今仍在职。她还编辑了多年的学院电子通讯《智慧盒》,最近是我们的研究主任。她的书《言语无法抵达之处》描述了她基于神经科学开发的一个独特的项目“萨提亚模式在沙盘中的应用”,随后她在许多国家教授。她的存在将被深深怀念。您可以阅读她丈夫吉姆(Jim)的最后更新(更新于2024年1月24日)。

 此致,

 辛迪·米勒

 太平洋萨提亚学院

 
 

 以下是收集到的部分中国学员

发给玛德琳老师的祝福

 

No.

 

01

 

马德琳老师,您好,我是您未曾蒙面的学生,通过彭贤老师翻译的《言语无法抵达之域》一书,学习您创造的nsst。在学习过程中,时常感慨您的细腻和智慧,敬佩您在助人之路上的投入和成就,这是您留给人世间的大爱。在面对生命的转身时,您选择果敢的离去,更让我们钦佩。为我们留下了一份美好的传承,即真挚地爱,勇毅地作别!面对生和死,都充满着力量!

 

Dear Madeleine, I am your student who has never met in person. I have learned your NSST  through the book "The Realm Beyond Speech" translated by Tara Peng. In the process of learning, I often feel your exquisiteness and wisdom, and admire your investment and achievements in helping others, which is the great love you left to the world. In the face of turning point of life, you chose to leave with courage, which makes us admire you more. You have left a beautiful legacy for us, that is, to love sincerely and to say goodbye bravely! In the face of life and death, we are full of strength!

Alice

 

 

No.

 

02

 

亲爱的玛德琳老师: 此刻我正在重庆地面的三人小组进行nsst沙盘练习,在练习分享中,总是有你的智慧,你温柔临在的眼神浮现在我的眼前。感恩一路与您的遇见,我想作为学生,对老师最大的感激就是将nsst用出来,将您教会我的东西去帮助到更多的人!我记得您说:让我借你一点光。此刻,我希望您有很多很多的光,照亮您前面的道路,无所畏惧! I love you! I miss you!

 

Dear Madeleine, At the moment I am with my trio group in Chongqing for NSST Sand Tray practice. In the practice of sharing, always your wisdom, your gentleness and your presence in the eyes are in front of me. Thanks for meeting you all the way, I think as a student, the greatest gratitude to the teacher is to use the NSST, to help more people by using what you taught me! I remember you said: let me lend you a little light. At this  moment, I hope you have a lot of light, light up the road ahead of you, fearless! I love you! I miss you!

Sherri

 

 

No.

 

03

 

我亲爱的玛德琳,听到你要离开这个世界的消息我很懵也很无措,不知道发生了什么?我们才刚刚分开40天的时间,为什么会有如此大的变化!虽然不能接受可是我还是知道你要离开我们了!我亲爱的玛德琳老师,你在我心里留下了这个世界上最温暖的拥抱,最纯洁的爱,最柔软的爱抚❤我会把这样的一份体验慢慢的带到我的生活中,学习像你一样爱这个世界!亲爱的玛德琳你在我心里也是最美的少女,你的一言一行都楚楚动人,灵动可爱,纯洁无瑕!你真的好美!你和吉姆在一起的样子让我体验到世界上有一种爱情可以如此的彼此温暖和支持,犹如天上的彩虹那样美好,你们在一起的样子也让我找到了亲密关系中最美好的榜样!我爱你玛德琳!我会在天上找一颗星星当作是你!我会在夜晚抬头的时候看到你和想念你,我爱你!

 

My dear Madeleine,

I am very shocked and overwhelmed to hear that you are leaving this world. I don't know what happened. We have only been apart for 40 days, why is such a big change! Although I can't accept it, I still know that you are about to leave us!

My dear teacher, Madeleine, 

you have left in my heart the warmest embrace, the purest love, and the softest caress in the world.

 I will bring this experience slowly into my life and learn to love the world like you! 

 Dear Madeleine,

you are also the most beautiful girl in my heart. Your words and deeds are delicate, lovely, and pure! You are really beautiful! The way you and Jim are together makes me realize that there is a kind of love in the world that can be so warm and supportive of each other, just like the rainbow in the sky.

 The way you are together makes me find the best example of intimate relationships! I love you Madeleine! I will find a star in the sky and call it you! I will look up at night and see you and  miss you, I love you!

俊贤(Leila)

 

 

No.

 

04

 

马德琳老师,你真勇敢,在我心里,勇敢的定义不是轰轰烈烈,而是极致的平和,谢谢你

我带上世间一切美好的事物,祝福你。

 

Madeleine, you are so brave. In my heart, the definition of brave is not vigorous, but the ultimate peace. Thank you. I bring all the good things in the world to bless you.

朱亚玲

 

 

No.

 

05

 

亲爱的玛德琳老师!

        听到你的决定,我很伤心,我是相信奇迹的,我不知道你正受着什么样的痛苦,我希望你可以像你陪伴的无数来访与家庭一样,使用迷走刹车,帮助自己更舒适一点,让自己是安全的,基于你的情绪蛋的创意,我还思考并准备着下次遇见你时的礼物。

        我期待奇迹可以发生,感恩与你和JIM有过相遇,这成为了我践行运用沙盘的一束光。

        祝愿你没有痛苦,带着爱,得以涅槃重生!

 

Dear Madeleine,

    I am sad to hear your decision, I believe in miracles, I do not know what kind of pain you are suffering, I hope you can use the vortex neuro as a brake, like you have accompanied countless clients and families, to help yourself more comfortable, let yourself be safe.Based on your creative emotional egg, I also consider to prepare a gift for you when we would meet the next time.

 I expect miracles can happen to you . Thanks for meeting you and Jim . This has become a beam of light for me to practice using the sand tray

 I wish you no pain, with love, to be reborn!

          Chongqing   Anrui

 

 

No.

 

06

 

亲爱的玛德琳老师:

深深的感恩您带着爱与慈悲在中国的工作和付出的努力,您播撒的爱的种子会在这片广大的土地上继续传播,我们也将以爱回馈给您,无论您在哪里。

虽然未曾见过您,但在萨提亚的大家庭中,感受到与您的一体性,同样我也感受到丧失的伤痛,同时我也清楚这是我的部分,我能送给您的除了祝福,没有其他,这份祝福绵延不断,一直在宇宙之中与您同在。也非常钦佩您面对生命最后的坦然和选择,祝福您自在宁静,与光同在,也祝福您的爱人和家人!

 

Dear Madeleine,

 I am deeply grateful for your work and efforts in China with love and compassion. The seeds of love you sow will continue to spread in this vast land, and we will return to you with love, wherever you are.Although I have never met you, I feel connected to you in the Satir family. I also feel the pain of loss, and I know that this is my part. I can give you nothing but blessings, which are constant and always with you in the universe.I also admire your calmness and choice in facing the final phase of life. I wish you peace and tranquility, and the presence of light. I also send my blessings to your lover and family!

一位陌生的萨提亚学习和实践者

A Satir learner and practitioner

 

 

No.

 

07

 

玛德琳老师,

      我是一名萨提亚模式的心理咨询师,我生活在中国杭州。有一次我在伙伴的工作室里看到了你跟她的合照,一眼就喜欢上你,我猜想萨提亚信念或是其他精神融入了你的生命骨血里,你是那么稳定、安静、娴静、优美。我们几个小伙伴认真听取了关于你带课的信息,都非常想参加你的工作坊和学习课程,并约定2024年组织一场萨提亚+沙盘工作坊邀请你来。然而今天突闻你的选择,心里有难过,也有理解,更坚定无论如何要向你表达我的仰慕、敬佩和欣赏之情,祝福你无论在哪里,自在随心,一切安好!

 

Dear Madeleine, I am a Satir model psychological counselor and I live in Hangzhou, China.Once I saw your photo with my friend in my her studio and fell in love with you at first sight. I guess the Spirit of Satir are integrated into your life, you are so stable, quiet, tranquil  and beautiful.Several of us listened carefully to the information about your class and we all very much want to attend your workshop and training programs, and agreed to organize a Satir Model sand tray workshop in 2024 to invite you.However, today I heard about your news suddenly, I am sad and understand it, but I am more determined to express my admiration, respect and appreciation to you in any case. I wish you all the best wherever you are, free and easy!

       萨提亚模式心理咨询师 晓颖 

      Satir Model Counselor  Xiao Yin

 

 

No.

 

08

 

知道这个消息,好震惊啊!虽然没有与玛德琳老师有过单独交流,但是她给我的印象是关爱、温柔、美丽、接纳、灵动、有创意的,祝愿玛德琳老师按照内心的愿望,去往想去的地方,感恩她把这么多的爱留给了很多的人,庆幸这个世界有她来过。

 

Know this news, it is  a shock! Although I did not communicate with  Madeleine in person, but she gave me the impression of kindness, gentle, beautiful, tolerant, intelligent, creative,.I wish teacher Madeleine went to the place as you want according to the heart of desire.I am grateful that you left  so much love for so many people . I am grateful that you have come to this world .

郭庆 (Grace)

 

 

No.

 

09

 

亲爱的玛德琳老师,我们没有见过面,但在一个月前看到您和学员沈小红的照片,被您的笑容吸引,还想着如何在今年跟你学习,惊闻您的身体状况,不敢相信,舍不得您的离去,同时又希望您离苦得乐.您的笑容记在我的心里,这将指引我,并给我希望,爱您老师。

 

Dear Madeleine, we have not met. but a month ago I saw a photo of you and your student Shen Xiaohong.I was attracted by your smile.I am planning to learn from you this year. By hearing about your physical condition, I can not believe it. I feel reluctant to your departure, but also hope you leave the pain and find your joy.Your smile is always in my heart, this will guide me, and bring me hope. I love you teacher.

朱德红(Margaret)

 

 

No.

 

10

 

亲爱的玛德琳,我花了很长时间反复回看宗媛和涂涂在TTT群里分享的信息,感觉突然也很难过。虽然我们只在2015年西安见过一次,但我对你在沙盘的萨提亚专业运用和对中国心理届的贡献非常钦佩,也对你的热情包括你充满磁性的声音印象深刻。我很抱歉不能再见到你,对我们又将失去一位萨提亚导师深深惋惜。你对中国咨询师的教学培养和你的人格魅力,都会留下久远的影响,也激励我们更精进地成长助人。

亲爱的玛德琳老师,我会在周三你离开的时候为你发心祈福,愿你在爱你的人的陪伴中安然放松,去往美好和光明。

爱你

 

Dear Madeleine, I spent a long time repeatedly reviewing the messages from Alexanderia and Hettie shared in the TTT group, and I feel sudden and sad. Although we only met once in Xi'an in 2015, I admire your professional application of Satir Model in the Sand Tray  and your contribution to  Chinese psychology community, and I am also impressed by your enthusiasm, including your magnetic voice.I am sorry that I cannot see you again, and I deeply regret that we will lose another Satir trainer.Your teaching and training of Chinese counselors and your personality will have a long-lasting impact, and will inspire us to grow and help others more vigorously. Dear Madeleine, I will pray for you on Wednesday when you leave. May you relax in the companionship of those who love you, and go towards the bright light .

I love you.

魏敏(Miranda),Beijing

 

 

No.

 

11

 

亲爱的Madeleine:

 我写信是为了与你、吉姆分享我和晓琴(Lisa)2018年在你家度过的美好时光。

 我很幸运能够更多地了解你的生活和你的沙盘房子。你的微笑和你与客户一起做沙盘工作的故事对我来说是如此清晰和生动。

 我喜欢你家附近的樱桃树和秋千。我也喜欢你当天做烤鱼和自制沙拉的方式,我们一起享受了一顿美好的晚餐并聊天。

 您是一个诚实、开放和关心他人的人。我很容易与你建立关系,并享受与你在一起的时光。

 我也很喜欢你在贝曼老师带领的七天大师班里的唱歌,吉姆弹吉他。我被深深地感动了您的歌声将我带到童年时期曾经孤独和悲伤的旋律。您的歌声旋律一直萦绕在我耳边,我感受到灵魂在共舞。

 当你在夜间做沙盘呈现时,我很幸运被选为明星。在您的带领下,我用沙盘摆出内在世界,并与我的恐惧一起工作。这是一次在直觉和自发性上的工作。谢谢你!

我很感激我们曾经有过一段美好的联结和快乐的时光。

我很后悔没有花更多的时间和你联系,但是你和吉姆一直深深地留在我心里。我爱你,玛德琳。我拥有你的英语书,你烹饪的照片,我喜欢你的樱桃树和后院的秋千。此时此刻,我知道你正在困难中,我把我的祝福和爱送给你。

 希望你在光明、和平和爱中。

 

Dear Madeleine:

     I am writing to share our beautiful moments in your house with you, Jim and Lisa in 2018. 

    I was so fortunate to get to know more about your life and your sand tray house. Your smile and your story of your sand tray work with clients were so clear and vivid to me.

    I like your cherry tree and swings near your house. I also enjoyed how you cooked the fish and we had such a wonderful dinner and talk together. 

   You are such an honest and open and caring person. I was so easy to connect with you and enjoyed time with you. 

   I also liked when you sang and Jim played guitar together in our master' class. I was touched deeply which brought me into my childhood theme of loneliness and sadness. My mind was around that theme and tone of your singing. you are with my soul.

   I was fortunate to be chosen as a star when you did the demo in our Master class. with your guide I played the sand tray and worked with my fear . That was an intuitive and spontaneous work with you. Thank you.

    I appreciate you when we had such a nice connection together 

     I regretted that I didn't spend more time to make connection with you somehow. However you and Jim have been in my heart deeply.  I love you, Madeleine. 

     I have your English book and I have your picture of cooking and I enjoyed your cherry tree and your swing in the backyard. 

      I am sending my blessing and loving to you when you are in difficulties.

    Wish you are in the light and peace and love.

  Hettie Tu  (Shenzhen)

 

在这里附上玛德琳老师在去世前发出最后两封信,以及去世后她的先生吉姆发出的第三封信。欢迎大家在留言板留言,你可以分享你与玛德琳的故事和照片,来庆祝玛德琳的生命。

 
 
 

 

 

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